Plan a Formal Wedding: Classic Elegant Simplicity for 2025 Brides
When you think “formal wedding,” you might picture something straight out of a royal palace - glass slippers optional. But don’t worry, planning a formal celebration doesn’t mean you have to follow every rule in the dusty old wedding handbook. Promise. 💍
A formal wedding is more like the chic older sister of other weddings: polished, elegant, but still open to personality, warmth, and fun. Imagine dreamy candlelight, velvety invitations, fancy napkins you actually DON'T want to use, and everyone looking like they’ve stepped out of a Vogue editorial - but still laughing over wedding bingo or doing the cha-cha slide. You get the vibe.
In this little guide, I’ll share what formal really means (and what it doesn’t), how to dress the part without stress, and of course, how to sprinkle in just enough Adorabelle-style magic to keep things classy, cozy, and totally YOU.
Common Questions About Formal Weddings:
What does a formal wedding mean?
Think timeless and elegant - not stiff and boring. A formal wedding usually means you’re going for black tie (or at least cocktail chic), classic styling, and that feeling of walking into a Pinterest board IRL. It’s about creating that “wow” moment - with room for your personality to shine through too.
What should I wear to a formal wedding?
For guests, it’s time to bring out the glam! Long dresses or a really nice midi for ladies, suits or tuxedos for the gents. Add something sparkly, something tailored, and you’re golden. If the invite says “formal,” yoga pants are sadly not invited (not even the fancy ones).
Is formal the same as black tie?
Close - but not exactly. “Black tie” is a bit fancier, usually requiring a tuxedo and floor-length gowns. “Formal” is a tiny bit more relaxed, meaning a nice suit works just fine, and gowns can be floor-length OR a sophisticated midi. Still posh, just with a teeny bit of wiggle room.
Can you have a formal wedding outdoors?
Absolutely. You don’t need a castle ballroom to go formal. A beautiful garden, vineyard or beachside venue can totally work - just bring in those elegant details like structured seating, tailored signage, formal dress codes and maybe a grand entrance (horse-drawn carriage optional but encouraged).
How do I decorate for a formal wedding?
Think elevated - but not over-the-top. Candles, polished table settings, beautiful calligraphy, structured florals, and soft lighting go a long way. And if you're feeling fancy, a touch of gold, velvet or silk never hurt anyone.
Is it okay to have fun at a formal wedding?
Yes please! Just because it’s formal doesn’t mean it has to be uptight. You can have a champagne tower AND a conga line if you want. Think luxury with laughter - polished, but with plenty of personality.
What kind of invitations work best for a formal wedding?
This is where I come in! Formal weddings call for beautifully printed invitations with classic fonts, elegant layouts, and maybe a touch of foil if you're feeling extra. Think timeless, not trendy - and something your guests will want to save forever.
What are the best colors for a formal wedding?
Neutrals and jewel tones are always a good idea. Think ivory, navy, emerald, burgundy, black, gold...You don’t HAVE to go all neutral, but a refined palette makes everything feel cohesive and luxe. And you can totally add in soft blush or dusty blue if you want a bit of whimsy too.
Can formal weddings still feel personal?
100%! Formal doesn’t mean generic. Add personal vows, signature drinks, little fun notes in your place cards, a fun first dance, or even a wedding website that sounds like YOU. Elegant and heartfelt are a match made in heaven.
What music works best for a formal wedding?
Live string quartet? Always a win. Jazz trio? Yes please. But hey, your playlist can shift from “Canon in D” to “Dancing Queen” as the night goes on. The key is: ceremony = classy, reception = party. Balance, baby.
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