How to Ask: Bridesmaid Proposal Card Ideas

How to Ask: Bridesmaid Proposal Card Ideas

❤️ Will You Be My...? – Say It with a Card They’ll Never Forget

When it’s time to ask the people who’ll stand by your side on the biggest day of your life, you want it to feel magical. Not just a “will you be my bridesmaid?” — but a true moment. A memory in the making. ✨

And what says it better than a beautiful card?

✨ Why a Card Beats a Text – Every Time

Asking the question in a gorgeous card makes everything feel more special. It’s personal, thoughtful, and unforgettable. Unlike a message, a card doesn’t disappear — it becomes a keepsake for years to come.

🎨 Create Your Own Style

All our cards are personalized with your own text. You choose the wording and the language — and you can even match the colors to your wedding theme! It’s a simple way to set the tone from the very first question.

💡 What to Gift Alongside the Card

👸 Bridesmaid / Maid of Honor

  • Silk robe in the wedding colors
  • Bracelet or jewelry
  • Mini bottle of bubbly + straw
  • Scented candle or bath bombs
  • Personalized mirror or makeup bag
  • Photos of the two of you

🎤 Best Man / Toastmaster

  • Luxury pen for the speech
  • Personalized notepad
  • Mini bottle of whisky
  • Tie or socks in the wedding colors
  • “Toastmaster survival kit” (mints, bandaids, caffeine, etc.)

🧰 Ring Bearer

If it's a child:

  • Cute teddy bear or plush toy
  • Wedding-themed picture book
  • Matching bowtie or outfit
  • Sign to carry down the aisle

If it's an adult:

  • Ring box
  • Cufflinks
  • Wallet with initials
  • Deck of cards or mini game

💬 What to Write in the Card

Not sure what to say? A short message is more than enough:

It would mean the world to me to have you by my side on my big day.
Will you be my [title]?

Want to add a little more?

I honestly can’t imagine this day without you there with me.

📦 Want to Keep It Easy?

You can choose cards with or without extras, such as:

  • White or colored envelopes
  • Rounded corners
  • Flat or Folded Card

Everything is delivered ready to use — straight to your door!

✨ Make It a Moment

Turn the question into an experience. It’s not just about planning a wedding — it’s about making memories that will last a lifetime, for both you and the person you’re asking.

👉 Discover all our “Will You Be...” cards here

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